![]() It turned out that while we were apart she spent hours and hours on her own reading letters from when she was a teenager and listening to music from that time too. I asked her why she did it and she said because he desired her and made her feel like she did when she was young. I told her what I’d read and then she admitted emotional infidelity but she denied sex because she had her period at the time. When I confronted her, her reaction was to say I was crazy and that we have problems. She’d left her inbox open on the PC and I saw quite a passionate email between her and him and a photo of them together during the original weekend away and I knew that there had been an affair. He said one thing and my wife had said another. I felt suspicious of this guy and asked our son where they’d both slept. Things were awful when she came back and she seemed very cold and distant. While I was alone back home I think we spoke about three times and the communication from her was friendly but very matter of fact. Just before I left she mentioned that this guy was to visit her with some girls. Clearly she wanted some time apart from me. This confused me as she hates the countryside and she gets stressed with being alone with the kids. I needed to return home to work and my wife was very keen to stay in France for two further weeks. We spent some time with her family in France this summer. ![]() I just put it down to the fact that she’d had a good time and I felt happy that I had been able to support her in doing this. Sex has been patchy between us since having kids and we started sleeping together more regularly after this trip away. Because I trusted her I thought nothing of it. She mentioned that she’d met a guy there that she used to go to school with. She went away for a weekend in June with some girlfriends. She is obsessed with time on her own, in part because of her perception that I am clingy and also mainly because she just needs a break from the kids and her day to day life. I wondered about an affair but she always said that she’s too busy and that this wasn’t her. She said no, nor did she know if she wanted to stay with me. I realized a couple of years ago that I was no longer her priority and then about a year ago I asked if she was still in love with me. ![]() ![]() Where previously I would have considered that we were soul mates it was painful to see her separate from me and I couldn’t rationalize how the desire to set up a business meant no longer sharing her thoughts and feelings with me. We have two wonderful children whom we both adore and who we love raising together.Ī few years ago my wife decided to focus more on herself. We are very compatible and get on well but for some years we have been drifting and not appreciating one another. My wife and I have been together for 15 years. ![]()
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